Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Review of Marilyn: Norma Jeane

I am so happy that I was able have the opportunity to read and review this electronic version of the 1988 book. I will definitely take a look at the original publication to view all the photos more closely.

I’m fairly new to requesting, reading and reviewing books from NetGalley that I almost missed this one! I didn’t realize until last week that I’m only allotted less than 2 months to read these books that the publishers so graciously trust me with before they go “Poof” from my Nook.
It’s a good thing that it’s a fairly short book and I was able to read it in its entirety today.

Gloria Steinem has compiled a compelling overview of the life of Marilyn Monroe (and Norma Jeane) that is part biography, part psychological profile, part picture book, part history, part feminist study, part speculation – all wrapped around very natural pictures of Marilyn Monroe, not long before her death in August 1962.
It cleverly seesaws back and forth between Norma Jeane and her ascent to become, and be, Marilyn Monroe. Filled with quotes from Marilyn herself, along with historical facts, hearsay, and other nuggets depicted in other publications – we are able to see her sparkling star power – an effervescence that from all accounts shines through.

 She was a gentle spirit, craving love and stability – a little girl lost who unfortunately didn’t find her way in time. She constantly craved a solid, steady mother-figure in the women she surrounded herself with and a father-figure in the men who she met, loved, and married. But the isolation, loneliness, and neediness of this child-woman caught up with her and she was taken away too soon.
It’s uncanny to me reading this, the little tidbits Marilyn Monroe/Norma Jeane and I have in common.

  • We both have a physical body developed too fast.
  • I share her eagerness to read, learn and grow.
  • One of her heroes was Abraham Lincoln. She wrote an essay and I wrote a book report – both in Junior High.

“With enough self-knowledge to recognize her own behavior, but not enough self-confidence to change it,” Ms. Steinem writes before quoting Marilyn herself (pg. 110). WOW! I can relate to that!
Steinem writes pieces about Norma Jeane, about Marilyn and then as many of the information throughout the book suggests – as both halves of the same person intermingled and one fighting the other that always seems to be fighting to be kept at bay.

Her insecurities are always there – I can tell from what I do know and what I’ve read in this book that she was in a constant struggle to keep the demons of her past out of her head, her need and constant craving to be loved and wanted, her thirst for knowledge and not to be seen as she was in many of her movies as the sexpot, dumb blonde.
Just when I was wondering what would have happened, had she lived longer and not died in such a theatrical way with all the mystery, conspiracy theories and speculation surrounding her untimely demise, I go a few pages further and that’s what the last chapter is about (although it was originally published in the late-80s when she’d be in her 60s).

Would she have made it as an aging actress at a time when aging actresses weren’t revered and their talents weren’t acknowledged as they are more today?
Would she have been able to make it in more serious roles, or as a character actress?

Would she still be a legend or would Marilyn Monroe just fade into the darkness and been a has-been?
We’ll never know. So, we’re left with the films and pictures of this pretty brunette, who became a platinum blonde icon with her sexy walk and husky voice – forever implanted in our minds.

I’ve only seen, “The Seven Year Itch” and “Some Like It Hot” – I will be expanding on that list and I look forward to reading more on Marilyn/Norma Jeane. Thanks for the glimpse Ms. Steinem!
 


By Gloria Steinem
Photographs by George Barris
Open Road Integrated Media
Published March 2013
Original Publication 1988

Disclaimer:
This book was provided to reviewer from the publisher,
Open Road Integrated Media through
NetGalley for the sole purpose of reading and review.

Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Anatomy of a Love Story

Dream,
Moonlight,
Wish,
Star,
Search,
Hope,
Wait,
Hello,
Heartbeat,
Fast,
Moment,
Breathe,
Look,
Eyes,
Sparkle,
Warmth,

Smile,
Light,
Lips,
Taste,
Kiss,
Arms,
Touch,
Hand,
Hold,

Caress,
Embrace,

Magic,
Steps,
Simple,
Words,
Rhyme,
Roses,
Wine,
Drift,
Float,
Lost,
Found,
Catch,
Wonder,

Fall,
Awe,

Feel,
Heat,
Melt,
Thrill,
Fascinate,
Amazed,

First Time,
Want,
Need,
Give,
Take,

Now,
Everything,

Connect,
Body,
Soul,
Heaven,
Paradise,
Beauty,
Lovely,
Special,
Sweet,
Darling,
Angel,
Valentine,
Precious,
Greatest,

Emotion,
Desire,
Sensual,
Sexy,

Passion,
Within,

Secrets,
Open,
Feeling,
Closer,
Support,
Faith,
Strength,
Spirit,
Cherish,
Care,
Happy,
Heart,

Real,
You,
Me,
Together,
Realize,

Mine,
Partners,
Whole,
Know,
Right,
True,
Reason,

Only You,
Promise,
Time,
Complete,
Soulmate,
Destiny,

Life,
Always,
Forever,
Eternity,
Memories,
Dream come true,
I Love You,
Happily ever after,
All my Love, all my Life.








Copyright 2013
Laurie J. Bokuniewicz



Monday, April 8, 2013

Review: Fine Cooking Comfort Food: 200 Delicious Recipes for Soul-Warming Meals

I love to cook comfort food. I think that is my "Genre" when I cook. My cooking personality is right in line with my Zodiac sign - Taurus.

I crave comfort, security and stability (although I've given up on this in the career sector of my life because if I didn't I would have gone completely crazy by now).

But getting back to the subject at hand...

Fine Cooking Comfort Food by Fine Cooking Magazine is a book that has an abundance of classic comfort good recipes (Beef Stew with Root Vegetables, pg. 48; Turkey Noodle Casserole, pg. 91; and Classic Scalloped Potatoes, pg. 208), basic cooking tips & secrets (How to Make the Perfect Omelet, pg. 163; How to Ice a Cake, pg. 231), as well as twists on the "standards" (Apple Crisp with Pecans and Orange, pg. 233; Turkey Soup with Dill, Parsley and Chive Dumplings; and Braised Beef Short Ribs with Salsa Verde and Feta, pg. 120).

When I thought of the perfect comfort pasta dish, I turned to the first page of the section and what did I find...Baked Macaroni & Cheese! I made it, shared it and it's was a hit so I'll be making again and again! Then, the next 4 recipes consist of variations on the classic - Pulled-Pork Macaroni & Cheese with Caramelized Onions and Four Cheeses, pg. 78; Tex-Mex Macaroni & Cheese with Green Chiles, pg. 79; Quick Skillet Mac and Cheese, pg. 80; and Shells with Gorgonzola, pg. 81).

Even in an electronic format, the bounty of pictures portrayed the simple, colorful, crisp elegance of comfort food - making your mouth water and your tummy growl.

I think this is a great first cookbook! I'm looking forward to making a purchase and giving it as a housewarming gift for the next friend's kid or one of my cousins who moves into their first "grown-up" pad -  there are 17 of us on one side ages 23 - 46, plus my cousins' kids who range from 1 month to 23!

I make my own Cream of Broccoli Soup, and of course I forget to write it down so it never comes out the same way twice! The last few times it hasn't been as good as previous attempts. So, I'm looking forward to trying the Broccoli Soup with Bacon, pg. 10 recipe from this book.

Even though it's April and I live in SoCal, it's still a little chilly at night, so I'll be making "Classic Grilled Cheese" (pg. 186), and paring it with, what else, but "Classic Tomato Soup" (pg. 4)!

 


Fine Cooking Magazine
The Taunton Press, Inc.
Publication Date: Nov 8 2011


Disclaimer:
This book was provided to reviewer from the publisher, The Taunton Press, Inc., through
NetGalley for the sole purpose of reading and review.

Thursday, March 28, 2013

How Will I Know?

Will I know when you come around, that you’re the one I’ve been longing to find?

Will I know when I look in your eyes, that you’re the one I’ll be with the rest of my life?

Will I know when you kiss me goodnight, that you’re the one who should be holding me tight?

It seems as though I’m drifting through time, searching for the one I’m dreamed I’d never find.

Will I know when I’m standing by your side, that you’re the one I’ll be loving for the rest of my life?

When I find you I believe I will know, that you’re the one I’ve needed with all my heart and soul.
 
 


©Laurie J. Bokuniewicz
3/10/1999
12:56 a.m. – 1:06 a.m.


Monday, March 18, 2013

Review: The Spark: A Mother's Story of Nurturing Genius


I don’t have children, but I think Kristine Barnett has the right idea – nurture a child’s excellence in any area they gravitate to.
A big part of nurturing is being aware of the talents a child possesses and also keeping a conscientious eye out for talents because they are not always prevalent and out in the open.
 
I know there are certain standards that the public education system has to adhere to, and with not enough teachers and overcrowding in classrooms – it’s hard for a teacher to have the capacity to really see each student as an individual and to find that one thing about each child that makes you think, “There it is!” and then to be able to nurture it. It’s even more difficult when that child appears to be stuck in their own little world as often seems the case with autism.
This is where we, as parents, friends, relatives, clergy, and all other adults who work with and interact with children – even if it’s not on a fairly regular basis have to take a stand. It’s our responsibility to nurture children and to guide them, to help them build confidence instead of pointing out what is wrong or lacking, or what a child cannot do or is struggling with and to instead, help them grow and nurture areas where they excel.
Midway through the chapter, A Chance to Play, there was a story of one of the girls that Kristine had in her daycare and her Dad was having a very hard time – Kristine’s solution was to tell him to take care of his senses. She told him on his way home to buy a chicken, along with rosemary and sage, wrap himself in a warm blanket, put on music he loves and look at a family album – he needed to reconnect with his senses. It made me cry. It was also funny at the time I was reading it because all I could smell was skunk…I figured our neighborhood skunk gave a hearty spray recently.
I had just made chicken soup a few days ago and the warmth and the comfort of sitting on my couch, wrapped in my blanket and reading this incredible story by this caring and nurturing woman – these stories of the love and giving of herself to her children and her community – just made me warm all over and filled me up so much that it came out in tears because it had nowhere else to go. 
The overall values of the book are – play, be of service to others, let children help and do simple chores even at a young age, be open to see a child’s talents and nurture them!
Along with running a daycare, Kristine created an early evening program for local kids with autism called Little Light. That led to the creation of Youth Sports for Autism and eventually, Jacob’s Place.
One of the ways Jake is able to be social and at ease with people despite his autism is by playing sports, by playing sports, these incredible children worked at, “prioritizing friendship, social interaction, community, teamwork, and self-esteem.”
This story is a family’s story – of the struggle of having an autistic child…and in turn, a genius to boot!
But, it’s not just Jacob’s story, but the story of the Barnett family as a unit, and a mother’s wish to be able to communicate with her child. She adds a little salting of her family history and the grounding in that family’s faith and charity that formed her and her husband into the giving, loving, and selfless people who strive to help others and in the end, help themselves and their family.
Because of this and taking some chances that would seem to some unorthodox, Kristine and Mike Barnett made choices and followed the true path of Jake’s potential in math and physics to go to college at Indiana University-Purdue University Indianapolis, at the age of eleven!
The intermingling of stories and examples throughout the book added to its brilliancy. It is refreshing to find examples of not just the author’s children and family, but of other families that helped keep the book well-rounded and helped fully tell this triumphant story.
I highly recommend The Spark: A Mother's Story of Nurturing Genius by Kristine Barnett to all adults who have children in their lives, their own or others – who will benefit from this inspirational story of overcoming obstacles and discovering that magic, even in adversity is possible.
Random House Publishing Group
Publication Date: Apr 9 2013
 
Disclaimer:
Pre-publication of the book was provided to reviewer from the publisher, Random House Publishing Group, through
NetGalley for the sole purpose of reading and review.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Reading is FUNdamental

In the first post of Living Life by the Seat of Your Pants I thanked several female authors, “for writing women with true, powerful qualities like intelligence, humor, sexiness, confidence, silliness, passion, sympathy, boldness, strength & compassion.” (I can’t believe I just quoted myself).

In the past few months I’ve been engrossed reading Joanne Fluke’s - Hannah Swensen Mysteries (with recipes included!), as well as J.D. Robb’s In Death series.

I also joined Goodreads - the largest site for readers and book recommendations in the world. It’s a great site that has helped me keep everything book-related in one place, create an inventory so I can see, with a quick check on my phone app, the books I own so I don’t buy duplicates during my forays into thrift stores and discount bookstores. My books are all in one place, organized by category and I can keep track of what I have read and am currently reading, as well as rate the books & write recommendations. And, I’ve also won a handful of books in their giveaways! I have exported my “library” to create a main list and location schematic of where these books are located within all the stuff that is mine.

Through my use of Goodreads and because I write a Blog, am an avid reader, and since my career is in Marketing and PR, I have been given the opportunity to join NetGalley - an innovative and easy-to-use online service and connection point for book publishers, reviewers, media, librarians, booksellers, bloggers and educators.

I have made a commitment to myself and to these publishers who so graciously entrust me with reading and giving my opinion on books by their authors that interspersed with “personal” posts of Living Life by the Seat of Your Pants I will be posting reviews of books as well.

I am so glad that I rediscovered the joys of reading books.  I wish everyone would take more advantage of this wonderful gift. I hope you will join me in this quest!

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

STILL Living Life by the Seat of My Pants

So a year ago on March 8, 2012 I published the first post of Living Life by the Seat of Your Pants.

For some reason I thought I published it a year ago today so that is why this is later than I had originally planned – a heavy undertaking for someone who doesn’t plan well…or in some cases, at all.
So what has transpired in the life of someone who continues to live her life by the seat of her pants?

·         I’m a year old and I’d like to think a little bit wiser

·         I’ve had my convertible car that I continue to enjoy but that definitely needs some work on – for 10 years!

·         I’m still single and haven’t had a date in what seems like forever

·         I have a beautiful, smiley, adorable Niece who I cannot wait to see again!

·         I had my hair cut into a Pixie and colored Auburn

·         I was temporarily laid off on March 1st

·         I currently own about 615 actual books

·         I have about 400 on my Nook

·         I’m still overweight

·         I still live in my cute cottage

·         I still smoke

·         I still own too much stuff

·         I still enjoy the beautiful weather in SoCal

·         And, I’ve kept up with this crazy undertaking of writing a Blog


A year later, not much has changed, but things can only if I chose to be conscious of what I’d like to change and take action to turn those changes into my reality.

Of course there are things that are beyond our control, but as I see it, you have to roll with the punches, give thanks for all you have, show gratitude and charity, and be open to all the possibilities this world and life has to offer you.

I’d like to thank everyone who has shown their support – whether it be with your comments, sharing my blog with your friends, or just your good wishes. It is very much appreciated.
 
So - Stay tuned. There’s more to come in this adventure that you’ve chosen to join me on.